{"id":292,"date":"2013-12-16T18:19:00","date_gmt":"2013-12-16T08:19:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/girl-germs.com\/?p=292"},"modified":"2015-09-27T15:10:17","modified_gmt":"2015-09-27T05:10:17","slug":"2013-resolutions-an-update-on-the-year-that-was","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/girl-germs.com\/?p=292","title":{"rendered":"2013 Resolutions&#8230;an update on the year that was."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So back at the beginning of this year, I stupidly went and made some New Years Resolutions (you can read the original post <a href=\"https:\/\/girl-germs.com\/?p=99\">here<\/a>). Looking back, I was optimistic and full of enthusiasm&#8230;and then the year wore on, and things got in the way, and plans got made that weren&#8217;t on the list (read: holy shit <a href=\"https:\/\/girl-germs.com\/?p=174\">WEDDING!<\/a>) which meant that I feel I didn&#8217;t put as much effort into my resolutions as I should have. So, here goes&#8230;an update on how the resolutions went&#8230;or didn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>1. Get healthy &#8211; Yeah, this was a dismal failure. Not only did I not lose weight I *gained* weight. A fair bit more than I&#8217;m really comfortable with. I&#8217;m hoping on fixing this, but as a resolution, I sucked at it. As part of the whole &#8220;get healthy&#8221; thing, I tried really hard (went on Lite&#8217;n&#8217;Easy for 6 months!) but then it got too monotonous and I just couldn&#8217;t stomach the food any more. I&#8217;m really hoping that, after Christmas, I can focus on eating better and exercising more&#8230;something I really did try to do this year, but just failed at.<\/p>\n<p>2. Stop bleeding money &#8211; This is something we have made headway on, but only because we had help. Massive shout-out to my parental units for being as awesome as they are and helping us out in a few tight spots this year. We aren&#8217;t bleeding money, we do have savings, our credit card doesn&#8217;t look feral and it looks like we will be able to afford to go on that holiday next year. We&#8217;ve also managed to score not one, but *two* trips to New Zealand over a 6 month period, which is pretty damn cool. I feel like we&#8217;re slowly getting on-top of this money thing&#8230;not sure how long that&#8217;ll last \ud83d\ude1b<\/p>\n<p>3. Work on getting my Microsoft Certification &#8211; FAIL. I failed at this spectacularly. Mainly because I focused so much on uni this past year. I have the materials I need to study and my new aim is to get it before June 2014. Wish me luck. <\/p>\n<p>4. Attempt to finish my Bachelors degree &#8211; See above&#8230;getting my degree is tied to me certification (it&#8217;ll be my final 12 credit points) so it&#8217;s not going to be done until I get my certification. However, I have made awesome progress with the degree and I&#8217;m currently working on my final subject through OUA towards my degree. So, by June 2014, I should have that awesome piece of paper I&#8217;ve been working towards for nearly 10 years!<\/p>\n<p>5. Not let work control my life &#8211; Now *THIS* I&#8217;ve managed to do. I do still check my emails of a weekend or even when on holidays, but it&#8217;s mostly just to mark a whole lot of logs as read or just delete everything. Work no longer controls my life the way it used to. Don&#8217;t get me wrong, I still love my job and love what I do, but I like to have downtime that doesn&#8217;t involve trying to fix a broken Windows Server.<\/p>\n<p>6. I want to go on holidays somewhere that isn&#8217;t my own house &#8211; This has happened not once, not twice, but THREE TIMES this year, and we&#8217;ll be doing it again in January too! Very excited that we&#8217;ve managed to do this. While the holidays weren&#8217;t particularly long (the longest was 5 days), they were still a big enough break to make me relax and also appreciate my home more.<\/p>\n<p>7. Go on a defensive driving course &#8211; Done and done. It was good fun, I really enjoyed it and it did teach me a lot. I still have some things I need to work on, but at least I know what to work on now. Certainly something I would recommend for everyone to go off and do, even if you&#8217;ve been driving for a long time.<\/p>\n<p>8. Stress less and smile more &#8211; I have managed to do this, I feel. I am still pessimistic in some ways but I can see the lighter side of things, I don&#8217;t take everything so seriously and I have learnt to laugh at the stupid things in life. There have been a few moments this year where I realise that the &#8220;old me&#8221; would&#8217;ve cracked the shits and yet the &#8220;new me&#8221; just laughs and moves on. 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