{"id":703,"date":"2015-03-06T08:32:10","date_gmt":"2015-03-05T22:32:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/girl-germs.com\/?p=703"},"modified":"2015-09-27T15:06:03","modified_gmt":"2015-09-27T05:06:03","slug":"30-before-30-a-look-back","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/girl-germs.com\/?p=703","title":{"rendered":"30 before 30 &#8211; a look back"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So. That&#8217;s it. I&#8217;ve hit 30. My life is over!<\/p>\n<p>Only kidding.<\/p>\n<p>It does mean that my <a href=\"https:\/\/girl-germs.com\/?p=291\">&#8220;30-before-30&#8221;<\/a> is over. So this is a quick recap of what I&#8217;ve managed to get done&#8230;and what I\u00a0didn&#8217;t quite manage.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Get healthy<\/strong> &#8211; STARTED! I&#8217;d like to say I&#8217;ve done this, but I think this is an ongoing &#8220;stay healthy&#8221;. My weight has fluctuated a lot over the last 15 months. I think I&#8217;m in a better place now &#8211; I&#8217;m better with portion controls, better with knowing what to put in my mouth (even if I don&#8217;t always follow it!) and better about exercise. I&#8217;m not sure I should&#8217;ve put this up here as something to &#8220;get done&#8221;. It&#8217;s more of a &#8220;this is what I&#8217;ll be doing for the rest of my life&#8221;. Don&#8217;t want to cross it off because I haven&#8217;t reached my &#8220;goal&#8221; weight, but I&#8217;m certainly healthier than I was 15 months ago.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Finish my degree<\/strong> &#8211; COMPLETED! Holy shit, it&#8217;s actually done. I honestly didn&#8217;t think I&#8217;d do it. But I did. I made it out the other side. As of 4th July, 2014 I completed all course work for my degree. Graduated on 23rd July, even went to the fancy ceremony! I also ended up with a Microsoft certification (my final 12 credit points) along with my degree. After nearly 10 years of hard slog, I can say I now have a Bachelor of Information Technology, and not a scrap of debt for it either.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Get my motorcycle license<\/strong> &#8211; STARTED! I&#8217;ve got my learners. I&#8217;ve been pillioning on the back of husband&#8217;s bike for a few months now. I am still keen to get my license (perhaps even this year) but putting a deadline on it isn&#8217;t a good idea. I want to be comfortable and, most of all, I want to be safe on a motorcycle. So this sadly didn&#8217;t get done &#8211; but I&#8217;m still working towards it!<\/p>\n<p><strong>4. Visit Europe<\/strong> &#8211; COMPLETED! This was fantastic. Probably the most amazing thing I&#8217;ve ever done in my life, to date. We had such an amazing time, created so many awesome memories. I still miss the place. We still want to go back. If you want more details on our trip, go read the 10+ blog posts I did on my &#8216;Scandinavian Awesomeness&#8217;!<\/p>\n<p><strong>5. Complete a decent size knitting project<\/strong> &#8211; STARTED! I&#8217;m *SO* close. I&#8217;m in the process of making an extremely long and beautiful shawl\/scarf\/wrap. It&#8217;s black (of course) and made from a milk fibre. It&#8217;s 100 stitches wide and I&#8217;m aiming to have it as long as my body, so it&#8217;s a very long ongoing project. I didn&#8217;t get it down in the time frame I wanted, because I really enjoy doing it &#8211; and rushing it would feel like cheating (also leave me open to making mistakes). So I&#8217;m going to keep going, keep slogging at it and maybe it&#8217;ll be done for winter this year!<\/p>\n<p><strong>6. Have a go at Roller Derby<\/strong> &#8211; NOT DONE \ud83d\ude41 This is something I didn&#8217;t do that I do regret. But it&#8217;s something I&#8217;m still keen to try. I now have <a href=\"http:\/\/imgur.com\/a\/2Kz05#0\">some amazing skates<\/a> (even if they aren&#8217;t derby skates) to give it a go on \ud83d\ude1b<\/p>\n<p><strong>7. Go camping at least once<\/strong> &#8211; NOT DONE \ud83d\ude41 Another one we didn&#8217;t do. More because neither of us are the &#8220;camping&#8221; type. So I&#8217;m scrapping this. We&#8217;re not campers. We&#8217;re cabin people. We like electricity and running water and furniture&#8230;and high-speed internet!<\/p>\n<p><strong>8. Go on a long-ass road trip<\/strong> &#8211; COMPLETED! Based on the fact that we did over 5500km&#8217;s while we were trekking all around Scandinavia, I&#8217;m calling this one as well. It was amazing, it was fun and it was a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. Don&#8217;t think we&#8217;ll get a chance to do it again! Sure, we&#8217;ll probably go for a trek through North Queensland (now that we have a decent car!) but we probably won&#8217;t get the chance to do a 5500km journey ever again.<\/p>\n<p><strong>9. Volunteer for something<\/strong> &#8211; COMPLETED! I&#8217;ve been told this is done, by many people. Volunteered for SAGE-AU for the better part of 7 years on their national committee, under various different roles. Highly recommend others volunteer for organisations like this, it does make you a better person! I&#8217;m hoping to be able to put my hand up to volunteer for something else in the future &#8211; possibly be a mentor to other girls who are interested in IT!<\/p>\n<p><strong>10. Learn how to surf<\/strong> &#8211; NOT DONE \ud83d\ude41 This just plain didn&#8217;t get done. I&#8217;d seriously love to, but it&#8217;s hard to get time at the beach when your other half hates the sun!<\/p>\n<p><strong>11. Become a better cook<\/strong> &#8211; COMPLETED! I think I have managed this one&#8230;sort of. I do still have my staples that I rely on (bolognaise, anyone?) but I have been able to experiment with dishes, try some new curries and Asian dishes, spice up my roasts, try new vegetables and new ways of cooking everything in general. I should say that most of my experiments and trying this out has come in the form of new deserts and sweets (nutella croissants are amazingly simple!).<\/p>\n<p><strong>12. Start (&amp; finish!) a craft project<\/strong> &#8211; STARTED! I&#8217;ve started it! I really have. I&#8217;ve never done a big craft project before, and this one is important and sentimental, so I don&#8217;t want to rush it. It&#8217;s the scrap book of our holiday, including photos and momentos from our trip. I&#8217;m working away at it (very slowly) so that it will be something we can look at and remember the times we had!<\/p>\n<p><strong>13. Keep my blog updated with a new post at least once every two weeks<\/strong> &#8211; COMPLETED! I actually did this. Looking back, I&#8217;ve managed 44 blog posts in that time, exceeding the &#8220;once every two weeks&#8221; limit. I&#8217;m planning on continuing in this trend, simply because I enjoy writing and I enjoy adding information to this blog for others to read!<\/p>\n<p><strong>14. Convince my brother and (soon to be) sister-in-law to let me help plan their wedding<\/strong> &#8211; NOT DONE \ud83d\ude41 Not much to say here. This was called off. Sad really. Think my brother will be better off for it though. I&#8217;m hoping to publish my Wedding To-Do list at some point to help others, so maybe that counts.<\/p>\n<p><strong>15. Read \u201cThe Lord of the Rings\u201d and \u201cThe Hobbit\u201d<\/strong> &#8211; COMPLETED! I&#8217;ve read them, they were good, but as someone who likes fast paced Tolkien certainly isn&#8217;t. I can also see why some sections were removed from the movies, though it&#8217;s sad certain scenes were cut! Have to say, did fall asleep while reading a few times &#8211; he does know how to drag things out. And my speed reading meant that skimming pages became&#8230;common.<\/p>\n<p><strong>16. Run a 5K fun-run<\/strong> &#8211; NOT DONE \ud83d\ude41 Didn&#8217;t get to that this year. Maybe this year will be the year I go and do it. Considering we walk nearly 5km every night, this shouldn&#8217;t really be an issue!<\/p>\n<p><strong>17. Grow plants\u2026and keep them alive!<\/strong> &#8211; COMPLETED! I can confidently say I&#8217;ve done this. My herb garden is going *beautifully*. I have some of the finest mint ever. Summer had me with fresh mint and basil, as well as thyme, sage and coriander (until it went to seed). I&#8217;m also looking after a number of gorgeous gerberas. My brown thumb has finally been broken!<\/p>\n<p><strong>18. Research my family<\/strong> &#8211; NOT DONE \ud83d\ude41 This was a bit of a wishlist item, because our families are somewhat confusing and (it turns out) while there is some information on parts of our family, trying to track it down can be a bit tricky. Still want to do this, but think it&#8217;ll require a bit more time than just 12 months!<\/p>\n<p><strong>19. Make and decorate a cake for someone<\/strong> &#8211; COMPLETED! So chuffed. Only managed to scrape this one in by the skin of my damn teeth! Mum&#8217;s birthday is three days before mine, and for her birthday this year, I baked a beautiful double layer chocolate sponge, filled with and topped with chocolate buttercream, then decorated with KitKat&#8217;s &amp; Maltesers. It looked AMAZING! Don&#8217;t believe me? <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/girlgerms\/status\/572710291684794369\/photo\/1\">Check it out in all it&#8217;s glory here!<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>20. Get a tattoo<\/strong> &#8211; NOT DONE \ud83d\ude41 But still on the cards! Rather than rushing into it, I&#8217;ve been mulling over what I want to get done. I do have an idea, and I am comfortable with it. Thinking of getting it done as a semi-permanent, just to see how I go to start with! But this *will* happen!<\/p>\n<p><strong>21. Get professional photos taken<\/strong> &#8211; NOT DONE \ud83d\ude41 Don&#8217;t think either Alex or I are in a place to get these done yet. I&#8217;m hoping that once we&#8217;re both &#8220;happier&#8221; with how we look (HA!), we&#8217;ll look at getting this done so that we&#8217;ve got some lovely photos of us!<\/p>\n<p><strong>22. Do a proper clean out of our house<\/strong> &#8211; COMPLETED! This is finally done. Easter extra-long weekend 2014, we did this. Threw out about 30% of our stuff and did 6 trips to our local waste facility to shift it all. Felt AMAZING! After the storms we got in early 2015 though, looks like we&#8217;ll be doing another &#8220;mini&#8221; clean out, just to get rid of things that were damaged.<\/p>\n<p><strong>23. Learn how to apply make-up properly<\/strong> &#8211; STARTED! So I think this is going to be ongoing&#8230;because make-up isn&#8217;t something I&#8217;m good at normally (I prefer none, to be honest) so I&#8217;m still learning and will keep learning. I&#8217;m now comfortable with putting on my daily make-up for work, based off videos and tutorials I&#8217;ve watched. I&#8217;ve also splurged on some slightly expensive make-up which has made a HUGE difference &#8211; surprisingly cost does equal better quality. Who knew?! Next step will be going out make-up.<\/p>\n<p><strong>24. Learn how to meditate<\/strong> &#8211; COMPLETED! Got myself an app called HeadSpace. I don&#8217;t know where I&#8217;d be without this thing. Take 10 minutes out of your day, every day, and give it a try. You&#8217;ll thank me!<\/p>\n<p><strong>25. Visit Australia Zoo<\/strong> &#8211; COMPLETED! Visited for my birthday in 2014 \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p><strong>26. Visit the library and check-out some books from authors I\u2019ve never read<\/strong> &#8211; NOT DONE \ud83d\ude41 Haven&#8217;t managed to do this yet, even though the library is so damn close. Maybe when I take some leave later this year, I&#8217;ll make the time! There&#8217;s also the fact that I now read almost all my books on my Kobo &#8211; so maybe this needs to be changed to &#8220;Download some books from some unknown authors&#8221; instead \ud83d\ude1b<\/p>\n<p><strong>27. Go and watch fireworks<\/strong> &#8211; COMPLETED! This was actually SURPRISE fireworks. I got flashy fireworks UP CLOSE as part of Avenged Sevenfold&#8217;s Soundwave Set! Way *WAY* more fun to be that close to fireworks than simply watching it from afar!<\/p>\n<p><strong>28. Wake up early enough and watch the sun rise\u00a0<\/strong>&#8211; COMPLETED! Got to sit on my veranda before heading for a run early on 11th March, 2014. Was beautiful!<\/p>\n<p><strong>29. Submit a paper to a technical conference<\/strong> &#8211; NOT DONE \ud83d\ude41 This is a bit sad. This is a bit to do with my own head and not feeling like I have anything to contribute (anything I&#8217;d want to contribute has already been said!) so I&#8217;m not sure what I&#8217;d want to talk about&#8230;or if anyone would even want to hear *me* talk. So this got shelved. Maybe when I&#8217;ve finally defeated my imposter-syndrome-demon I&#8217;ll be able to move ahead with this.<\/p>\n<p><strong>30. Organise my life<\/strong> &#8211; COMPLETED! This is done. I&#8217;m kind of chuffed about it really. Our finances are in order (and we&#8217;re making steps to improve them), our house is organised (well, I can find most things, and that&#8217;s a start) and I feel like I&#8217;m on-top of things for the first time in a very long time. Should give a shout-out to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.todoist.com\">Todoist<\/a>\u00a0for that, as it&#8217;s helped me keep on top of everything I&#8217;ve needed to do!<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>So of my 30 &#8211; 15 completed, 5 started &amp; 10 not done. \u00a0So two-thirds either completed or started &#8211; &#8217;tis better than having done nothing \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>Learnings<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not sure I&#8217;d do another one of these, to be honest (unless it was a bucketlist). I feel that putting a timeline on some of these things was a bit silly &#8211; getting my motorcycle license for example. Putting extra pressure on something that (for me) is already pretty stressy just makes it worse.<\/p>\n<p>In the flip side, I enjoyed certain tasks &#8211; the blog posting thing spurred me to write more and I&#8217;ve\u00a0<strong>really<\/strong> enjoyed it. I&#8217;m not going to stop, just because the 30-before-30 is over. Aim is to keep going at the current rate of roughly one post every 2 weeks.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not going to give up on those things that I didn&#8217;t get done &#8211; I still want to do them&#8230;just don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ll put a timeframe on them!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So. That&#8217;s it. I&#8217;ve hit 30. My life is over! Only kidding. It does mean that my &#8220;30-before-30&#8221; is over. So this is a quick recap of what I&#8217;ve managed to get done&#8230;and what I\u00a0didn&#8217;t quite manage. &nbsp; 1. Get healthy &#8211; STARTED! I&#8217;d like to say I&#8217;ve done this, but I think this is an ongoing &#8220;stay healthy&#8221;. My&#8230; <a href=\"https:\/\/girl-germs.com\/?p=703\">Read more &raquo;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[6,329],"tags":[132,194],"class_list":["post-703","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal","category-personalstuff","tag-132","tag-list"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p2Tmk1-bl","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/girl-germs.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/703","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/girl-germs.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/girl-germs.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/girl-germs.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/girl-germs.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=703"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/girl-germs.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/703\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":730,"href":"https:\/\/girl-germs.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/703\/revisions\/730"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/girl-germs.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=703"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/girl-germs.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=703"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/girl-germs.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=703"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}