{"id":82,"date":"2012-12-03T02:08:17","date_gmt":"2012-12-03T02:08:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/girl-germs.com\/?p=82"},"modified":"2015-09-27T15:12:32","modified_gmt":"2015-09-27T05:12:32","slug":"taking-leave-and-why-its-so-important-to-just-stop","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/girl-germs.com\/?p=82","title":{"rendered":"Taking leave&#8230;and why it&#8217;s so important to just *stop*"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve hit that point in the year where I&#8217;m cranky with everyone, I&#8217;m fed up with dealing with people, the tasks that I wanted to get done this year haven&#8217;t all been done, things are behind, everything&#8217;s irritating me and I&#8217;m just fed up with life in general.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s been 8 months since I took a &#8220;holiday&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Most of the time, when people say &#8216;holiday&#8217;, they&#8217;re talking about going away. While that would be nice, I kind of like staying home, unwinding and spending time in a house filled with things that make me happy.<\/p>\n<p>I know a large number of people who don&#8217;t take holidays. They occasionally take a day or two here and there, have a long weekend or two during the year, but they never fully unwind.<\/p>\n<p>I was one of those people.<\/p>\n<p>Up until this year, I was always very very tied to my job. I was tied to checking my email logging in and making sure things were okay, making sure people knew my mobile phone number in case something went wrong. So while I was on holidays, I wasn&#8217;t really &#8211; because I was still thinking about work, still immersed in it, still contemplating what was left to do, what hadn&#8217;t been done, what I was going to do when I got back.<\/p>\n<p>I am committing this year (in 9 days, to be precise!) to not do that. I am going to just *stop*. I am going to have a holiday that doesn&#8217;t involve, not even once, checking my work email or my work phone. I am not going to think about work or even contemplate work until, at the very earliest, the day before I&#8217;m due to go back.<\/p>\n<p>We all need to take a break. As IT people, particularly sysadmins who are very closely tied to their systems, we don&#8217;t switch off. Even when we&#8217;re not in the office, we still check our email, log in and check our systems, receive SMS notifications or work phone calls. We&#8217;re so sucked into it that it can (and does!) consume us.<\/p>\n<p>No wonder so many burn out!<\/p>\n<p>I would like to propose to you, the reader, to work out when you last took a holiday (and it doesn&#8217;t have to be a holiday going away somewhere&#8230;even a week at home doing what you enjoy, is a holiday!) and you didn&#8217;t check your email. When you didn&#8217;t check your work phone. When you didn&#8217;t answer a call from a colleague asking about this system or that piece of software. Post about it in the comments &#8211; I&#8217;m guessing, for a lot of you, you honestly can&#8217;t remember when that time was.<\/p>\n<p>There is a reason we get given 4 weeks of recreation leave every year. It&#8217;s because it is recognised that you need a break. You need to step away from what it is you do to make a living and take some time to do what you enjoy. To recharge. Even if you wholeheartedly love your work, it still reaches a point where you need to take that step back, take a deep breath, and just unwind.<\/p>\n<p>So from one sysadmin to (possibly!) many others. Take a holiday. Don&#8217;t check your email. Switch off your work mobile. Leave your laptop in the office. And, for $deities sake, ENJOY YOURSELF! There truly is more to life that zero&#8217;s and one&#8217;s ^_^<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve hit that point in the year where I&#8217;m cranky with everyone, I&#8217;m fed up with dealing with people, the tasks that I wanted to get done this year haven&#8217;t all been done, things are behind, everything&#8217;s irritating me and I&#8217;m just fed up with life in general. It&#8217;s been 8 months since I took a &#8220;holiday&#8221;. 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